Our new world selves exist and are waiting to integrate with our human experience.  We have been building them for a number of years now and for most of my readers they are 40% to 50% as strong as needed for us to live fully within them!  So, my challenge now is to teach people how to integrate them!  I see them like suits of clothing hanging right in front of people, but they don’t realize they are there.

In recent weeks we have worked together through these posts, merging with power animals to help ground the new world energies into our world experience.  I am going to suggest we now practice merging with our new world selves to practice integrating them into our bodies and auras.

To integrate our new world selves, we will each have to take some steps into a different way of being in relation to the world and people around us.  The new world experience is sovereign — where we become so strong in our unity with Higher Self that we don’t get entangled with the energies around us.  We interact but in a different way than people generally do.  It is a way that generates energy and grows new world life.

The old-world experience is full of entanglements.  We often find ourselves stuck in other people’s energies, or carry other people’s negativity, problems or concerns within our own body and aura. We find ourselves giving away our energy to others without fully intending that. I call this co-dependent and our society is built of that type of behavior.  Over the previous century and a half people have increasingly sought to experience themselves more fully beyond the roles and controls of society and family.  This is a new world impulse.  And while we have made progress individually and collectively in overcoming the heaviest levels of it, we still get caught within the co-dependent entanglements because that is how we define love.  If I love you, I become one with you. For instance: Your problems are my problems.  My experience is strongly defined by your experience.  If you are happy, I am happy.  If you are sad, I am sad.  If you are angry, I am hurt.  If you love me, then I feel loveable.  If you don’t love me, I must not be loveable.  I can’t be myself because you become jealous or are hurt by it.  Etc….

Objectively I think we can see the dysfunctionality of these attitudes and beliefs, but our old-world selves are programmed in these ways.  Our survival in the old world depended entirely on our little worlds of family, town, society, and religion.  We have culturally broadened, but leaving behind those social limitations, we seek to create our own tribes populated by people with whom we believe we have common goals.  The closer we get with someone else, the more we depend upon them, and or the more we will tend to give away ourselves and our power and to take on the other’s weight and baggage.

Not being co-dependent is especially challenging with children who are completely and appropriately dependent on us when small.  Trusting and allowing them to be themselves, grow their independence, struggle to become whole and strong, can be very difficult, but necessary.  Letting them make mistakes is an essential element of their learning which many parents resist.

Learning to co-create with Higher Self and with each other in a new world manner as sovereign individuals is one of our big learning curves for ascension. For instance: I love you doesn’t mean I carry you or you carry me.  It can mean I am whole, and you are whole, and we love co-creating a life together, learning together, growing each in our own way within this relationship.  Whether forever, or just for now being with you.  As I maintain my center, I find the challenges of being together make the wholeness within me grow stronger.  The love we each are when we are in unity with Inner Wisdom and Higher Self builds a field of love and Holy Spirit between us.   That is our gift to each other and to the world.

Co-dependency tends to do the opposite.  When people lean on each other, one taking on more of the burden, than the other, or both losing themselves in the partnership we each lose energy.  We stop generating.  Gradually the blessed “High” of new love becomes the loss of self and we wonder where our love went.  Trying to make one whole out of two people doesn’t work.  We need two “wholes” so we don’t become full of holes!

A big part of the clearing which is ready to happen now is of other people’s soul energies and burdens being released out of our bodies and auras from lifetimes of dysfunctional relationships.  We can release them guilt-free because each person needs to be whole in themselves.  When we release them and reclaim ourselves, each of us has the potential to function more successfully.  Standing on our own two feet and reaching within to find the reserves of strength, unity, and wisdom we own for ourselves we are freed.  The sticky weight of abuse or codependency is released, and we can begin to see our way forward to the fulfillment of our purpose and to healthy relationships.

Beyond childhood, no one needs another to run their life or make them comfortable and happy.  Each of us is responsible for those things.  In partnerships we may divide up roles for convenience and fairness, but only as that is right for us.  We may help others because it is right for us to do so.  However, when we are carrying others, we know it.  We feel the burden.  We lose focus in our own purpose and feel something is missing.

Amazingly, those we think we are helping by carrying them, also lose focus and power.  They are not fulfilling their purpose of growth but may be disempowered by our help.  When we stop carrying them many of these people rise to the occasion and feel more self-respecting.  They won’t do things our way, and we may think their ways is  inefficient or unfocused.  But it’s their life and they have to do it on their own terms. Pay attention day by day to the balance of purpose and power within your life.  If you are doing more or less than your share, adjust.

Not everyone will be ready to take these steps, but many within my healing practice are finding that their relationships are working better and better as our works helps them grow more whole and sovereign.  The drama and conflicts are diminishing and the pleasure in the relationships is growing as each one feels more freedom to be themselves.

So, you can see that claiming yourself within your partnerships, families and other relationships, even workplaces perhaps, does not mean the ending of those relationships.  It may be a new beginning for everyone involved.

Being yourself in a sovereign way has another significant element.  In old-world relationships we felt that we couldn’t be ourselves unless others understood us and hopefully agreed with us.  So, people would open themselves to others and share all their feelings and beliefs and even their judgments and hurts of and from those others.  They expected this would bring closeness and healing, but often it brought hurt.  This approach may be just another act of co-dependency, expecting others to make us feel good about ourselves.  It often does the opposite.  Before sharing with others, meditate on who they are and what they will be able to accept from you.  Consider what you want and what you can realistically expect.  Decide how you share based on these considerations and what you are okay taking from the experience.  Sometimes you just need to let it all out and you don’t care what the end result is.  But if that isn’t the case, you can learn to comfort, empower and reassure yourself in whatever ways you won’t be getting from others.  Then share with them what they are ready for even if it is just a small crumb to you.  This is not stuffing yourself, but self-parenting and self-respect with an accompanying acceptance of and respect for the limitations of others.

Think of how you share yourself with others in a different way.  What is the right part of you to share with that person and what part of you is your own path which they aren’t yet ready for, and maybe never will be?  You don’t become more yourself by burdening others with your uniqueness if they aren’t ready to embrace that.  Share yourself in the ways that fit, and nurture yourself in the ways that you need.  There are no relationships that will be able to embrace all of you, because in the new world we are each completely unique.  We are not looking for those who are like us.  We are growing something unique that only we can grow.  We seek where and how that fits in the world around.  Over time and practice being true to ourselves we discover we are where we belong because being ourselves leads us to that experience.

This challenging idea becomes easier and easier the more you live in your new world self.  In your new self you are connected so intimately to your Inner Wisdom, your Higher Self, the essence of truth of God, your angels, and your spirit companions in completely healthy ways that you lose your appetite for codependent relationships.  While on your journey toward that experience, you can take things a day at a time and work with the ideas I have written here as you are ready for them.

As you clear the things you carry in your body, aura and soul that are not you but are baggage you have picked up from others, your new world self will be able to ground more and more fully into your human experience.  So, the journey is one of letting go, incorporating more of your new world self, letting go more, incorporating more…etc.  Over time you are born into a new world person.  Looking back now, you will see you have already made strong progress on this journey.

Things that help with this process of clearing the old and integrating your new world self are:

1 – Chakra Tuning – Both my Chakra Tuning and Quick Chakra Tuning Self-Healing MP3s in my online store guide you through a kind of chakra calisthenics.  They exercise your chakras in a way which expels stuff which is not you and tunes you to your clearest self.  Through your freshly tuned chakras you will also receive help with ascension. (See Resources below this post to find directions to my online store)

2 – Daily Morning Setups – Spiritually centering and choosing to live in your new world self can be essential for growing your new world experience and finding success in your life.  Eve’s 3 Most Important Things Videos give you tools for that.  Video #3 combines in brief the skills learned in the first two videos and adds one more giving you a good soul exercise, tune-up and way to create a protected new world focus for your day.  #3 is also the shortest of the series, providing you with a do-able daily setup. (To find those in my Video Gallery – see Resources below this post)

3 – Private Healing & Ascension Treatments – Working with me individually helps you and your relationships to be empowered and to enter the new world.  It helps clear what you carry that is not you and ground into your new world self.  I always check to be sure it is the right time for you to work with me before we schedule, so you may confidently inquire for a session if you want. (See Resources below this post to contact me to schedule)

Your Inner Wisdom is your eternal true self.  Your human experience is busy transforming and ascending – it is your work, it isn’t your fault or your problem, or even your best self.  Identifying with your Inner Wisdom, you can have compassion for your human self and your relationships while you integrate more of your confident and clear new world experience.

I hope you find this helpful on your journey of growing sovereign and whole my friends!

I love you and wish you a beautiful week,

Eve

Resources for the Journey of Ascension:

• Healing & Ascension Monthlies are a diverse group of people shifting into their new world experience and helping others do so as well.  It offers potent support to smooth your journey of life, healing, and ascension. Join us for the next series of 6 starting 9/14/23. We meet by phone conference and classes are recorded should you have to miss every 4 weeks on Thursday from 7:30 – 9:30 PM. There is a base fee, but also a sliding scale if needed! To enroll visit https://spiritualhealers.com/participate  for more information and to contact me through my website. Or email evew@spiritualhealers.com
• Private Healing & Ascension Treatments are available by appointment.  We will address the root cause of issues you contend with to unblock, heal and empower.  This also helps those connected with you and others who need this work. Then we will help you step more into your new world self which provides a new light and direction into your life and relationships. email evew@spiritualhealers.com  or visit https://spiritualhealers.com/heal/  for more information, testimonials and to contact me that way.
• Video Gallery – Interviews with Eve, Eve’s 3 Most Important Things Videos and More: spiritualhealers.com/video-gallery
• Self-Healing Mini-Classes are available on MP3 from my website store for as little as $10 at spiritualhealers.com/all/
• Free Tools for riding the waves of change on earth:

• • 8 years of weekly word posts are in the archives of this site with practical/spiritual tools and teaching to help you find your way.
  • Previously Published Articles from Body Mind Spirit Guide and Wisdom magazines that give perspective on every aspect of life, healing and ascension. https://bodymindspiritguide.com/author/eve-wilson/

• My Book: Riding the Wave of Change-Hope Healing & Spiritual Growth for Our World helps people understand the positive purpose behind our present challenges and provides tools for riding the waves of change.  Available in eBook, paperback or hardcover at evewilson-ridingthewave.com or in paperback at Schuler Books Westland and Castle Remedies in Ann Arbor, Mother Nature’s Remedies in Cheboygan.  Also available on Amazon.com where you can leave a review, even if you bought it elsewhere.  Thanks so much if you do!
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