Healing the Holes in Our Hearts

Ascending hearts release lots of old stuff that has blocked the experience of true love.  This clearing reveals energetic voids where those old blocks used to be.  Empty places within our hearts and souls can become fertile ground to grow our new world experience.

Letting go of what we have used to fill our old-world emptiness is a journey of grieving and loss even when those things failed to satisfy.  It is also a journey of self-empowerment and the joy of rebirthing ourselves.  I believe it is important to honor both sides of this process, or we may miss important gifts we receive from all our experiences.  At the same time, it is important not to attach to what is letting go, but to forgive, heal and honor the gifts they have brought us of strength, self-awareness and empowerment.  Then we can embrace more of our new world potential for wholeness.

Emptiness exists because we have been unable to own the powerful potential in those parts of ourselves previously.  So, we filled ourselves temporarily with other things.  With relationships — often in a co-dependent manor because we are trying to fill something.  With jobs, food, substances, hobbies, habits, TV or whatever we needed to help us through until we could become whole.  Ascending brings us into unity with Higher Self and through that into wholeness.  Then we can heal old relationships and grow healthy ones with people, food and other things in our lives.

On our way to wholeness all this letting go can make us feel temporarily like something is missing.  We grieve and need to respect that; not try to stuff the hole with something else.  The process of grieving is a way of honoring what has gone before.  Giving thanks for what these things gave us lightens our attitudes and energy.  Recognizing elements of those experiences which were limiting and where we would not want to repeat former choices makes us wiser and stronger.  Releasing emotional buildup and wringing the last gifts of self-awareness from those experiences is worth the effort.  We may have given our power away, hurt others or were hurt in some way.  Recognizing it, owning the gifts, forgiving and expressing gratitude for everything is the process that sets us free from the past and prepares us to birth our new world selves.

Sometimes during ascension there is just a wave of sadness or loneliness that comes with no apparent reason.  Very often this is just part of the grieving process and some of what we are grieving may not be present lifetime.  Much of it will have roots in our hereditary lines or through many lifetimes, perhaps since the very beginnings of the old world journey of separation.  So, don’t worry if you can’t always make sense of the feelings, but recognize that you are letting go of issues and challenges which have been intimately a part of your life or even many lives.

It takes some courage to own and empower the empty places which are left behind when the old world blocks go.  We may feel like we have no idea how to live within this new aspect of self.  That is because what you are being called to grow in those voids is brand new – it is the new world experience.  The part of you which knows what to do in those places is your Higher Self, which is your eternal facet of the Oneness.  The higher intelligence and love of this part of you is encouraging you to gain a little traction in these areas.  To build the energy needed for your Higher Self to incarnate into your human self.  Once that begins to happen there is a strength of identity, enlightened will power and unconditional love which begins to emerge from within you.  These qualities are heralds of new world experience.

Unconditional love is not so much a feeling as a state of being.  It is one with the unity of all things, with the Higher Power and the greater good.  Unconditional love doesn’t judge.  It responds from unity with understanding, forgiveness, gratitude and patience.  It trusts the process of everyone in each moment of life.

It is very possible to have feelings and attitudes of judgment but still allow unconditional love to act through your behaviors and choices.  Because unconditional love is also unconditional toward ourselves, it knows we are human and have all the experiences of being human, including judgments and limited understanding.  The core of each of us is unconditional love.  Through a willing heart and mind, unconditional love can flow regardless of the old world baggage and blocks we contend with.  Unconditional love is a choice we have to make for ourselves to be free and ascend — to receive it and give it regardless.

Gaining traction of true self within the voids left behind when old world stuff clears can happen through the following processes:

1 – Open your heart to your own higher intelligence and love.  From that connection, embrace old world negative emotions and anxieties as you would embrace a child you care for with unconditional love and acceptance.  Our old world selves are very childlike.  They usually respond well to love and acceptance.

  • This loving act may bring on an emotional release – allow it to happen.
    • If you find this stage challenging there is a lesson on opening your heart and connecting with Inner Wisdom and Higher Self in Eve’s 3 Most Important Things Video #1 in Resources below.

2 – Invite unconditional love to plant seeds of unity with higher self self within the empty places you feel within.

  • Water those seeds through nurturing acts:
    • Nurture yourself
      • give yourself unconditional love
      • honor your feelings but don’t hold on to them
        • love them unconditionally and let them heal and release
          • stay centered and grow stronger in your unconditionally loving core called Inner Wisdom
          • this is sometimes like parenting an inner three year old — immature emotions attended by unconditionally loving maturity. Don’t let the child run the house, but don’t stuff them in a corner either
    • Nurture others – with unconditional love but continue to self-nurture as well
    • Open heart and mind to unconditional love before, during or after circumstances that need more of it. Whenever you make this choice it brings healing and helps everything in life to work out more easily for the greatest good.
      • Unconditional love is for yourself and others. It accepts and embraces your lower emotions and thoughts but helps you respond with higher intelligence and love to everyone and everything.

3 – Learning to live unconditional love is a big soul workout, but one that is getting easier by the day as the world ascends into greater unity with Higher Self.  For more ways to grow unconditional love explore Resources for the Journey of Ascension below this post.  Those resources will help you learn unity with Inner Wisdom and Higher Self and help you heal and ascend.

Ascension brings us waves of deep joy, comfort and satisfaction with life.  We find ourselves rising increasingly into the clearer/lighter state which is the new world.  It is strongly present with us now on Earth especially when we choose unconditional love.

Ascension takes us through deep cleansing of old attitudes, beliefs, hurts and griefs.  Enjoy the gifts of both sides of this journey.  But remember that you can always center on your core of true self within.  I call this core Inner Wisdom and all of the tools in Resources below strengthen that core of true self.  Build and strengthen it for yourself until it holds you in a steady state of trust and peace, even in the midst of great change.

Blessings and love on your journey of ascension my friends!  Eve

Resources for the Journey of Ascension:

  • My Book: Riding the Wave of Change-Hope Healing & Spiritual Growth for Our World helps people understand the positive purpose behind our present challenges and provides tools for riding the waves of change.  Available in eBook, paperback or hardcover at evewilson-ridingthewave.com or in paperback at Crazy Wisdom Bookstore in Ann Arbor, Nature’s Products in Detroit, Mother Nature’s Remedies in Cheboygan.
  • Free Tools for riding the waves of change on earth and to do your part to strengthen the new world for all of us: There are 3 videos on this site which are free to all.  Type Eve’s 3 Most Important Things into any search box on this site to pull them up!  In addition, there are 8 years of weekly word posts in the archives of this site with practical/spiritual tools and teaching to help you find your way.
  • Self-Healing Mini-Classes are available on MP3 from my website store for as little as $10 at spiritualhealers.com/store
  • Enrolling Now!!!Healing & Ascension Monthlies are a diverse group of people shifting into their new world experience and helping others do so as well.  Join us for the next series of 6 starting May 27 by phone conference and recorded should you have to miss.  We meet every 4 weeks on Thursday from 7:30 – 9:30 PM. To enroll visit https://spiritualhealers.com/participate for more information and to contact me that way. Or email evew@spiritualhealers.com
  • Get Certified!!!Healer & Ascension Certification Course is enrolling for those who wish to become Healers and World Ascension Workers. Graduates are eligible for legal UCM Healer Practitioner Certification. To enroll email evew@spiritualhealers.com  or visit  spiritualhealers.com/study  for more information and to contact me that way.
  • Graduates of my Healer and Ascension Certification Course and HDP Courses may be eligible to participate in Grads World Ascension Class or Advanced Ascension Class.  Enrolling now – email evew@spiritualhealers.com
  • Private Healing & Ascension Treatments are available by appointment.  We will address the root cause of issues you contend with to unblock, heal and empower.  This also helps those connected with you and people with similar challenges when they are ready change.  Then we will help you step more into your new world self which provides a new light and direction into your life and relationships.  email evew@spiritualhealers.com or visit https://spiritualhealers.com/heal/ for more information and to contact me that way.
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