People experience preferential love, selfless love and unconditional love.  What are the differences?

The feeling of – “Oh!  I love that!”  Is what we often think of as love in the human sense.  “This is something I want, it is something I need”.  Preferential love is all about our human selves and our human needs and desires.  These preferences have been all-important in the old world, helping us as we try to ascertain what is right for us.  It hasn’t always been truly helpful and has often led us down a path that was very hard for us, but it has been a primary compass of our lives.

An old-world alternative to preferential love is selfless love, which is often considered to be more spiritual.  Selfless love gives its all for those it feels deserving of service.  It is a way of self-abandoning and can often disempower others.  It may create more problems than it helps.  Everyone is essential.  Sacrifice of one for others leaves a hole in the whole of life.

When we take responsibility for our own well-being on every level and include unity with our eternal spiritual true self, we become whole.  From that wholeness flows a highly intelligent love, which understands on a profound level of knowing how each person and situation is exactly right for the role they play in the world.  This is unconditional love.  It doesn’t judge or seek to rescue unless that is truly needed.

Unconditional love doesn’t sacrifice the human it flows through, but enhances them, enlightens them, guides them to right choices and behaviors.  That person becomes a deep well of unconditional love.  It isn’t a fountain that pours indiscriminately on everyone and everything.  It is a well that others, through their own initiative, can access if needed.  Ideally, they learn to access their own well within their own selves increasingly rather than becoming dependent on someone else to provide it.

When we are in unconditional love, preferences take second place to the inner knowing of what is right and needed in each moment, day, circumstance.  Drawing from that deep well within, we learn to recognize the signs that tell us how to fulfill our greatest purpose and good every minute of our days and night.  We learn when to give, when to receive, when to reach out, when to wait.  We learn when to persevere and when to retreat or change direction.

Drawing clarity and direction from our own deep well of unconditional love and unity with Higher Self is challenging if done occasionally.  If we save it just for those times where we have great need, it will be very hard to access.  When we make it a more consistent partnership between our human desire and will-power joined with the deep well of inner knowing we hone our skills.  We become trustworthy for ourselves.  We find ourselves constantly in the place where we need to be.  Sometimes that place is difficult but will prove to be extremely valuable for soul muscle building and skill development.  Sometimes the goodness of life will flow into our lives with great synchronicity, generosity, and ease.  Getting what we want is not a reliable indicator of unity with Higher Self.  What we want isn’t a trustworthy guide, though it is important to pay attention to it, so that we are aware of what motivates us.  Sometimes what we prefer is exactly what we need and sometimes not, and our deeper knowing will help us recognize what’s right for us in each moment.

Ascension is leading us into this deep well of true partnership between our eternal spiritual Higher Self and our human focus.  As we walk this path, the wounds of our past can heal, and we can become whole.  We are always nourished from within, and so whether others give us what we want or not becomes less and less of a concern.  If what we need isn’t forthcoming from people and places where we think it should be, it means we need to find it within or allow it to show up in a new way.

The strengthening of our unity and spiritual soul muscles allows us to trust that our greater good is always being provided for.  That what we cannot do ourselves will come from another source.  But when it isn’t flowing from another, we will need to delve into our inner well of higher intelligence and unconditional love and discover what is expected of us that is new.  In responding to that we will find new and better ways to provide for ourselves and our world.  We are truly Riding the Waves of Change, and this is how it is done.

I love you and believe in you.  You can do this!  You are unique and amazing.

Blessings and love always,

Eve

P.S.  For help building your own deep well of unity, please consider Healing and Ascension Monthlies Classes.  We are enrolling now for the series beginning August 15.  In the meantime, private healings and working with the tools on my website, in my website store and in my book can be essential beginnings.  See Resources below for more information.

Resources for the Journey of Ascension:

Healing & Ascension Monthlies are a diverse group of people shifting into their new world experience and helping our world heal and ascend.  It offers potent support to smooth your journey of life, healing, and ascension.  Join us for the next series of 6 starting 8/15/24. We meet by phone conference and classes are recorded should you have to miss, every 4 weeks on Thursday from 7:30 – 9:30 PM. There is a base fee, but also a sliding scale if needed! To enroll visit https://spiritualhealers.com/participate  for more information and to contact me through my website. Or email evew@spiritualhealers.com

• Private Healing & Ascension Treatments are available by appointment.  We will address the root cause of issues you contend with to unblock, heal and empower.  This also helps those connected with you and others who need this work. Then we will help you step more into your new world self which provides a new light and direction into your life and relationships. email evew@spiritualhealers.com  or visit https://spiritualhealers.com/heal/  for more information, testimonials and to contact me that way.
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• • 8 years of weekly word posts are in the archives of this site with practical/spiritual tools and teaching to help you find your way.
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• My Book: Riding the Wave of Change-Hope Healing & Spiritual Growth for Our World helps people understand the positive purpose behind our present challenges and provides tools for riding the waves of change.  Available in eBook, paperback or hardcover at evewilson-ridingthewave.com or in paperback at Crazy Wisdom Bookstore Ann Arbor, Castle Remedies Ann Arbor, Mother Nature’s Remedies in Cheboygan.  Also available on Amazon.com where you can leave a review, even if you bought it elsewhere.  Thanks so much if you do!
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