{"id":3295,"date":"2023-03-30T14:37:26","date_gmt":"2023-03-30T18:37:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/spiritualhealers.com\/blog\/?p=3295"},"modified":"2023-03-30T14:39:07","modified_gmt":"2023-03-30T18:39:07","slug":"valuing-ourselves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/spiritualhealers.com\/blog\/?p=3295","title":{"rendered":"Valuing Ourselves"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This week I worked on many things.\u00a0 But the one that seems important to share is about building individual strength and support for self within relationships.\u00a0 And the independence, strength, and self-love to be okay without a partnership.<\/p>\n<p>I was shown how woman have relied on men and given their power away in order to be loved and taken care of.\u00a0 Also how men have encouraged this behavior to make themselves feel important.\u00a0 No big surprise here, but it is up for ascending!\u00a0 I recognize that similar dynamics exist in alternative sexual orientations as well and how it sometimes shows up as dominant woman and disempowered men.\u00a0 My job was to help strengthen the wholeness of everyone, so that whether in relationship or on their own, they are whole people instead of partial people looking for their opposite piece.<\/p>\n<p>The opposite piece dynamic is disempowering for everyone.\u00a0 It can begin by feeling comforting and familiar, but it ultimately leads to dissatisfaction, strife, and loss of self.\u00a0 You can\u2019t thrive as half a person, even when you have a partner, it doesn\u2019t work long term.<\/p>\n<p>My work went to the lost continent of Atlantis where much of the old-world dynamics were built for Earth.\u00a0 I then went to the place where these dynamics were conceived and worked with them there.\u00a0 The work I did was to strengthen each one\u2019s unity with Higher Self and to strengthen their own sense of wholeness.\u00a0 Then we worked across time to upgrade people\u2019s experiences.\u00a0 Emotional and mental stresses from the past were released, and greater unity and wholeness built retroactively.\u00a0 This creates a new foundation of truth within people\u2019s unconscious assumptions about life, allowing them to easily change their responses to the relationships they are in or to being okay without one.\u00a0 We were helping people to choose wholeness over co-dependence and power give-away, or the tendency to need or use others as a prop for low self-esteem.\u00a0 Unity with Higher Self was supported in growing stronger, increasing the inner strength and awareness of each one\u2019s unique beauty, value and gifts.<\/p>\n<p>As these new foundations unfold, people will be more centered within their own lives and stronger advocates for their own true purpose, value and needs.<\/p>\n<p>Each of us is unique, necessary and on purpose in our lives all the time.\u00a0 As we ascend, we are liberated from the untrue beliefs and experiences of the past and in the present.\u00a0 We begin to co-create a better reality with our Higher Selves as our primary partner.\u00a0 Our Higher Self is the one we have been looking for who will always have our own greater good at heart.\u00a0 It is the source of higher wisdom and unconditional love in each moment of our lives! \u00a0It can be accessed through your open heart and centered within your belly and whole body.<\/p>\n<p>You are perfect and growing into your truth with each passing day.\u00a0 Sometimes as things shift, you see nothing but the old junk that is clearing.\u00a0 Remember to open your heart to your Inner Wisdom and your Higher Self which opens you to the new world focus.\u00a0 From that perspective old stuff passing away is just that.\u00a0 It is not an indictment of our weakness and errors.\u00a0 It is the power of our truth which allows that old stuff to pass.<\/p>\n<p>Its passing leaves space to build a new reality.\u00a0 Independence and strength are needed to hold steady with that and not try to create a \u201cmagical\u201d relationship which will make it all perfect.\u00a0 Real magic is within each of us built on unity with Higher Self.\u00a0 It can\u2019t be found outside of us except in short term fantasy.\u00a0 Enjoy the fantasy while it lasts but know when it\u2019s past you have that beautiful inner unity with Higher Self which sustains and strengthens you.\u00a0 Which guides you in your life.\u00a0 Never let that go, it is your truth, your power and your destiny!\u00a0 Own it within your relationship right from the start so you can build something lasting and true, more beautiful than you ever believed.\u00a0 Though not perfect, it could be perfect for you.<\/p>\n<p>Know also that not being in a relationship is a great time to grow the inner unity you truly desire.\u00a0 Once that is there, everything else works out optimally.\u00a0 Commit to this primary relationship and co-create the way to realize your true gifts and potential.\u00a0 You may always choose to be independent, or you may co-create a great relationship.\u00a0 You are unique, trust your journey.<\/p>\n<p>Blessings and much love to each of you beautiful and unique friends!<\/p>\n<p>Eve<\/p>\n<p><strong>Resources for the Journey of Ascension:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>! 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Then we will help you step more into your new world self which provides a new light and direction into your life and relationships. email\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:evew@spiritualhealers.com\">evew@spiritualhealers.com<\/a>\u00a0 or visit\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/spiritualhealers.com\/heal\/\">https:\/\/spiritualhealers.com\/heal\/<\/a>\u00a0 for more information, testimonials and to contact me that way.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Video Gallery \u2013 Interviews with Eve, Eve\u2019s 3 Most Important Things Videos and More: <\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.spiritualhealers.com\/video-gallery\">spiritualhealers.com\/video-gallery<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Self-Healing Mini-Classes\u00a0<\/strong>are available on MP3 from my website store for as little as $10 at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.spiritualhealers.com\/all\/\">spiritualhealers.com\/all\/<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Free Tools\u00a0<\/strong>for riding the waves of change on earth:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li><strong>8 years of weekly word posts<\/strong> are in the archives of this site with practical\/spiritual tools and teaching to help you find your way.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Previously Published Articles<\/strong> from Body Mind Spirit Guide and Wisdom magazines that give perspective on every aspect of life, healing and ascension. <a href=\"https:\/\/bodymindspiritguide.com\/author\/eve-wilson\/\">https:\/\/bodymindspiritguide.com\/author\/eve-wilson\/<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>My Book: Riding the Wave of Change-Hope Healing &amp; Spiritual Growth for Our World\u00a0<\/strong>helps people understand the positive purpose behind our present challenges and provides tools for riding the waves of change.\u00a0 Available\u00a0in eBook, paperback or hardcover at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.evewilson-ridingthewave.com\/\">evewilson-ridingthewave.com<\/a> or in paperback at Nicola\u2019s Books Westland and Castle Remedies in Ann Arbor, Mother Nature\u2019s Remedies in Cheboygan.\u00a0 Also available on Amazon.com where you can leave a review, even if you bought it elsewhere.\u00a0 Thanks so much if you do!<\/li>\n<li><strong>Social Media &#8211; <\/strong>Join me on Facebook, Twitter, Linked In or BodyMindSpiritNetwork to receive Healing Treatment Coupons, Monday Meditations, Wednesday Inspirations and links to this blog and more. Links are present at the top and bottom of my homepage at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spiritualhealers.com\">spiritualhealers.com<\/a> and BMSN has its own section toward the bottom of that page.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Graduates\u00a0<\/strong>of my Healer and Ascension Certification Course and HDP Courses may be eligible to participate in Grads World Ascension Class or Advanced Ascension Class.\u00a0 Enrolling now \u2013 email\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:evew@spiritualhealers.com\">evew@spiritualhealers.com<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This week I worked on many things.\u00a0 But the one that seems important to share is about building individual strength and support for self within relationships.\u00a0 And the independence, strength, and self-love to be okay without a partnership. 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