Love and anger are two world forces.\u00a0 Love increases and builds, anger breaks down and changes.\u00a0 We can see these two as partners within us and work with them together to achieve balance.<\/p>\n
Culturally we treat these two as oppositional forces and that causes us to be polarized and disempowered.\u00a0 When we love greatly, we are more likely to become angry than when we just don’t care.\u00a0 But most of those who read this blog will tend to see themselves aligned with the love polarity in our culture; this often\u00a0makes it difficult to use our anger effectively.\u00a0 It can cause\u00a0us to judge anger as bad which blocks its moderate expression in balance with our love.\u00a0 Then it breaks loose when we can’t hold it in anymore and becomes a destructive force in our lives.\u00a0 Learning to partner our love and our anger we can empower our actions and choices.\u00a0 This is one great lesson for\u00a0spiritual people, because\u00a0when we see people using anger without love, that\u00a0can make\u00a0us angry!\u00a0 We need to unify these forces within.<\/p>\n
Anger grounds, motivates and drives.\u00a0 Love unifies and invites Higher Power to act in the world.\u00a0 So when you find yourself feeling angry, before you choose to stuff it, and if you can\u00a0pause from\u00a0acting on it,\u00a0find out what within you needs to be expressed, or what needs to change in your life.\u00a0 To do this you may need to go within and ask yourself what it is that you are afraid of, worried about, or judging.\u00a0 Get really honest and into your feelings, the answers may not be in your head, but rather in your belly.\u00a0 Learn to listen to your gut.<\/p>\n
Many times what you will find there is an old fear or judgment that requires love and a connection to Higher Power in order to resolve into a more mature level of self-awareness.\u00a0 Working with these old issues is a lot like working with a child who needs to be listened to, loved and taught how to respond to issues and relationships with greater effectiveness.\u00a0 You can teach your feeling self through inner hugs and self-talk and welcoming your Higher Self and the Higher Power to embrace your old hurts.<\/p>\n
Once you get past that, ask yourself what you want to do about the thing in your life currently, which made you feel angry.\u00a0 Is this something you feel you should respond to, or was it only a teacher to make you address your old fears and become stronger within?\u00a0 You will know which because either you will feel at peace and like you don’t need to act, or the issue will keep coming up and bothering you.<\/p>\n
If the feelings within you won’t resolve without action, then choose to act with love.\u00a0 When you combine love and anger you have the most powerful force for change in the world.\u00a0 From that state\u00a0you receive a higher level of intuitive intelligence to guide your responses to life.\u00a0 It takes you past the knee jerk of anger and into a place of compassionate response.\u00a0\u00a0 From there you can\u00a0act without being perceived as attacking.\u00a0 This is important, because when\u00a0someone feels attacked,\u00a0they are almost certain to attack back!\u00a0 Then you have war and retribution and it gets ugly.<\/p>\n
I think this is particularly important at this time in our country when tempers are high.\u00a0 Being spiritual, we may feel our job is merely to stay removed from things and work with our spiritual tools, and that is important.\u00a0 However, there are also\u00a0great outer opportunities for loving action available to us.\u00a0 Yes, the world needs to break down in order to ascend, so we can give thanks for the destructive behaviors of others for that reason.\u00a0 I am told to expect about a 40% breakdown\u00a0before things are able to be lifted to a higher level where they can resolve into something new and better.\u00a0 But choosing a loving and empowered response to the damaging energies others are promoting\u00a0(where you feel the call to do so)\u00a0can help everyone to shift more easily.\u00a0 What is most important is that we don’t feed the negativity by\u00a0acting\u00a0from fear, judgment, hatred and blame.\u00a0 Or if we do, we will quickly observe the negative backlash!\u00a0 Then we will\u00a0hopefully remember to step back and work through our reactions to find a way to respond that will be helpful and empowering of the greater good for all.<\/p>\n
I am often\u00a0reminded of Nelson Mandela and how his unconditional love turned the hostile environment of South Africa into a great victory for love and unity.\u00a0 We can do that together.\u00a0 None of us has to individually go through what he did; but if we will\u00a0collectively overcome our individual fears and choose to act with compassion and love for ourselves and others, we will achieve new levels of self-mastery and help our world heal and ascend.<\/p>\n
The same process applies to our personal relationships, because it is where we love greatly in a human sense\u00a0that we will experience fear and anger most intensely.\u00a0 It is because we care and we are vulnerable.\u00a0 When you find yourself angry with those you love, don’t just stuff it or blame them for it, but take a moment to step back and work with it.\u00a0 Seek within your feelings for what is really going on.\u00a0 A simple question to ask yourself is —\u00a0\u00a0How old do I feel in this situation? —\u00a0.\u00a0 Usually the answer will be that you are feeling quite young, between 2 and 10 yrs. old.\u00a0 That awareness can help you understand the fears that are motivating your anger.\u00a0 Deal with those through self-talk and teaching your child self as though you were your own better parent.\u00a0 If needed a spiritual healing can help you\u00a0move through\u00a0spots that keep you in fear instead of love.<\/p>\n
Once you have brought comfort and love to those old fearful places, you will be able to respond to those you love\u00a0with compassion and dignity,\u00a0instead of anger and fear.<\/p>\n
It is never too late to do this; even if you have had a big fight, or stuffed your fear and anger and not taken care of your feelings.\u00a0 When you do your inner work you can bring your Higher Self in and find ways to heal the situation.\u00a0 You can go back into your feelings and imagination and\u00a0re-walk through the situation as many times as needed to free up the fear and anger, and discover how\u00a0you\u00a0can\u00a0respond with empowered\u00a0love, compassion and dignity.<\/p>\n
Doing this will alter the dynamic in the relationship and allow change to happen.\u00a0 Then you will find you can respond differently next time.\u00a0 Sometimes it will help to talk it through with the person, and sometimes it will be enough to wait and see how the situation alters just from doing your inner work.\u00a0 Either way can be empowered and self-loving.\u00a0 See what feels right to you.<\/p>\n
Anger is the force of change in your life.\u00a0 When you feel it, something needs your attention so things can change.\u00a0 First look within with love and compassion for the change that is needed within yourself.\u00a0 Responding to that, you will\u00a0then be able to discern what action or change is needed in your outer affairs.\u00a0\u00a0From that position, acting with\u00a0love, compassion and dignity you can be a positive force for good in the world.<\/p>\n
Use the coupon this month for $10 couples healings or in March for all healings, if you would like to schedule a session!\u00a0 There is a working email Eve link\u00a0again on my website to contact me.\u00a0 Thanks for sharing this message or\u00a0 your experience with these blogs through the links below if you\u00a0feel others would find\u00a0it helpful!<\/p>\n
Have an empowered and loving week my ascending friends!\u00a0 Love, Eve<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Love and anger are two world forces.\u00a0 Love increases and builds, anger breaks down and changes.\u00a0 We can see these two as partners within us and work with them together to achieve balance. Culturally we treat these two as oppositional … Continue reading